In a 6 qt (about 6 liters)pot, whisk together the egg yolks and sugar.
Add ¼ cup (60 ml) of the milk to make it easier to mix into a smooth mixture.
Add the flour and whisk again, forming a uniform, clump-free batter.
Add another ¼ cup (60 ml) of milk.
Heat the remaining milk in a saucepan or microwave. Stir continuously to prevent scorching.
Temper the egg yolk mixture by slowly pouring the hot milk in, while mixing.
Set over a medium heat and cook for 2-3 minutes, whisking to prevent scorching.
Add 1 tbsp of vanilla extract and stir.
Add 1 ¾ sticks of butter. Allow to melt and stir the custard into a smooth mixture.
Alternatively, beat the butter into the cooled to room temperature custard.
Allow the custard to cool by pouring it into a jelly roll baking sheet, covering it with plastic wrap so it touches the custard to prevent a film forming.
Bring to room temperature.